The dynamics of a marriage after cheating will naturally be different from the phase before the affair happens. Commonly, when infidelity occurs, the betrayed party would demand changes. These usually entail changes for the better in terms of habit, personality and actions. Because your spouse has hurt you, you feel that you have the right to [...]

There is this story of a woman whose husband cheated on her with all the classic signs of cheating being present. But she was a very trusting wife who didn’t suspect anything amiss until someone actually called her up at work to let her know that her husband is cheating. This was an anonymous call from someone who [...]

Should I leave my husband or wife is a common question that you would ask over and over again in your mind when you find out that your spouse has been cheating on you. In fact, the feeling of betrayal can easily push you towards a separation or divorce, especially in the initial stages. That is a natural reaction [...]

Understanding the other woman actually takes a lot out of a betrayed wife because she needs to step away from her own painful situation and look at it from another woman’s point of view. Not many can do that because the common perception is still women who have affairs with someone else’s husband are bitches and homewreckers. [...]

In many cases of infidelity, wives will become obsessed and even consider confronting the other woman. If you are, it’s time to stop thinking about the person your husband is cheating with. The reason for it is very simple: it does not do you any good to be obsessed over this other woman. The other [...]

When you get married, you certainly don’t expect to end up with an unfaithful spouse. There are bound to be expectations of how your spouse should perform and act and this would naturally include a sense of loyalty and faithfulness on top of a host of other characteristics and behaviors that you think a spouse should possess. However, while [...]

When cheating occurs, the first and one of the most common reactions that the victims have is to throw the cheaters out. There is little motivation to know why spouses cheat and see the other point of view. For the betrayed partner, it seems better to get the cheater out of her life because there is no place for such [...]