Since cheating is usually a symptom of underlying problems between two people, saving your marriage will therefore require you to confront the problems head on. To help you to look into your marriage, you can try reading this book, Rescue Your Love Life, which is written by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend.

It is not a book specifically about infidelity and cheating, but if you are thinking of saving your marriage, it is a good book to read. We recommend it because it is written in a way that is easy to digest and we think the points raised will help you towards recognizing your own attitudes and weaknesses that may have contributed to the problems in your marriage.

Basically, Rescue Your Love Life brings up eight dumb attitudes that will put a strain on your marriage and make it fall apart. With those attitudes also come some pointers on how to avoid them or improve your current situation. We find those dumb attitudes are pretty common in most marriages and many people simply tolerate them until it comes a time when the opportunity to seek comfort elsewhere arises. The extent of those dumb attitudes and how we deal with them daily also differ and these partly determine how toxic a marriage can become.

The authors espoused some Christian values in most of the chapters to reinforce universal concepts such as grace, which is necessary for a happy marriage. Their idea is you should always look at yourself first and take the first step to encourage a positive change in your marriage. If there is cheating going on right now, you certainly need to change when it comes to saving your marriage. Once you change in a positive way, it will influence your spouse to also work for the betterment of the marriage. This is similar to the concept of ‘give first, receive later’, which many find difficult to practise nowadays since it runs contrary to our need for instant gratification.

Anyway, if you are looking for a book on how to improve your marriage and want to take a look at your own attitudes that could shape the future of your relationship, then this book is for you.

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