Once your spouse’s affair has been exposed and you now know the truth, you will need to decide whether to leave or embark on infidelity recovery to keep your marriage. If you choose the later, it becomes imperative that you always keep this goal in mind when trying to reconnect with your spouse and strengthen your [...]

Once you discover that your spouse is cheating, it will come a time not long after that you will need to rebuild the marriage after infidelity, if you do decide to work things out. You will need to talk to him regarding the matter although this discussion will be a difficult one and may span a [...]

When your spouse cheats and hurts you badly, there is a tendency to have the cheating spouse revenge spirit in you. It is one of the common reactions to that unfairness as you scheme to get even. It is also a natural defense mechanism against the vulnerability that you have as a human being. We have seen people [...]

When someone has done you an injustice, forgiveness is hard. Forgiving infidelity is even harder when that someone is your spouse whom you love and trust with all your heart. It cuts to the core of your being and forgiveness seems unfair when what your spouse has done is an outright betrayal of your trust and [...]

Having trust after infidelity can be a huge obstacle in repairing and maintaining a marriage. Because when cheating happens, trust is naturally broken. Trust is, in fact, a neccessary ingredient in a healthy marriage because it allows two people to share the deepest intimacy, fears and secrets. Our deepest feelings can only be shared when [...]

Surviving infidelity in a marriage is obviously tough. Betrayed spouses have been known to suffer emotionally with some even experiencing depression and post-traumatic stress disorder. Blame, anger, bitterness, unhappiness and erosion of self-esteem are typical reactions to having a cheating spouse. But when betrayal happens to you, it is also your duty to cope and [...]